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CONGRATS On CAT'S WINS....
Spirit & Eden did great in Canada also!
Fri: Spirit / WB/BOW 2 points over Am.Ch.Sterlings Competatior Of Kabik "Tori"
Sat: Eden /WB/BOS/BOW  3 points Over Bitch Special   
Sun: Eden /WB/BOS/BOW over Bitch Special 3 point win over  Tori  but he Finishes
WOO  HOOOO!!!
& Gail got 2 group 1's & a BIS  with "Elmo Men Are from Mars"

Tracy


 

Hey a Big Hug and a huge congratulations
There is lots you can do with Cat. What about Rally?
Way to Go
Lorianne


 

I have two standard poodles, Bridget and Tulie. I can imagine how you must feel with the loss of Baby. The poodles ARE my children and I would grieve the loss of one as a parent would a child. You have my deepest sympathy. Nancy Fisher, Bridget and Tulie


 

I'm hoping that your Baby is flirting and playing right now with my Rico (the puppy I lost to that awful neighbor) up in Heaven. We lost him 24 years ago. We were fortunate to leave that area the following year for a job transfer. We never found out who did it before we left and that was probably a good thing. Take good care of yourself, Robin


 

I wish there is something more than condolences I could offer. I can relate completely to your loss, but it's diffrent that was was not much you could do. We spent 2 months looking for our lost affie and found out that the rescue here had gotten him but they saw us as neglectors that were no longer worthy of caring for our pet. I only hope that your family finds peace and love out of this occurance. Best Regards, Renee & Noel


 

I want to send my condolences for your tragic loss of Baby. I had one of my afghan hound puppies "murdered" by a neighbor years ago and know the meaning of this kind of loss. My loss was intentionally caused, yours was just not. Baby unfortunately just happened to be at the wrong place at the wrong time. Who would have known?
 
I am glad to see you are not going to jump just yet to get another dog or puppy. You need to grieve and so do your other dogs. It takes time to heal. Your heart and soul will let you know when the time is right again.
 
Robin


 

What an absolute nightmare... I am so very, very sorry for your tragic loss.....I froze when I read about it. Please take care of yourselves. from a very sad Sylvia.


 

Hi Laura,I hope that you are feeling better - at least a little.  My little kitty was 14 years old and she was a registered Persian. Her name was Silky's IttyBitty Kitty. I called her IttyBitty and she was my baby. She was born premature and she had to be intubated to feed her, for she was so premie. She had no hair and no suckle response. She was in very bad shape. My husband said, "Just set her aside and let her go Janice. She ain't gonna make it." But I refused to give up and she never suckled. She was tubed for a week or so. Then she started licking the end of a dropper and she was fed EVERY 2 hours or less all thru the night for 2 full weeks. Then I started slowing down on the thru the night feedings but she slept in the bed with us (in a basket) so if she woke up and was hungry I just fed her. She was terrified of storms and Mommy and Daddy (us) held her and comforted her thru the storms and she was the queen of this house! And God only knows what she meant to me!

One night she came in and jumped up on the bed and she was staring at me and I asked her, "What's wrong?" and a few seconds later she just fell over on her side and started crying (like I am now) and we rushed her to the emergency room for pets and they tried to save her. They said she had a uterine infection but I SWEAR TO YOU SHE SHOWED NO SIGNS BEFORE FALLING DOWN THAT NIGHT.  I mean I talked and loved on this baby the very minute that I walked into the door and she was not showing ANY SIGNS OF BEING ILL. She had eaten that morning and I had been in the house a lot that day and I had seen and held her a LOT and there was NOTHING to indicate that she wasn't feeling well. Well they did surgery and she didn't make it. I knew that when I handed her to the nurse that day I would never see her alive again. When they came out and said that she didn't make it my world went very dark and it is STILL so hard to talk or even write about it.  I held her for 2 hours before I would let my husband bury her and the loss I feel is still SO strong. It hurts so much I really can't bear it. No I am not crazy but I couldn't have any children so my four legged babies became my children. So just know that when I say I feel for your loss, please believe me I do.

My neighbor's himalayian cat had some kittens and she brought them over and I couldn't even look at them! But she and my husband kept on at me and then she brought over the friendliest little girl and left her. And it was like God gave her an assignment - to help me. And she wouldn't leave me alone at ALL. She went all over this house following me. AND WHEN I SAT SHE WAS ON ME!! Well you know that finally I started returning some of the attention and she is wonderful. Her name is Teacah and she will never REPLACE IttyBitty. BUT the emptiness is not as black as it was before Teacah came to live here. She is NOT MY BABY ITTYBITTY but she saved me from my own despair. I thank God for sending her to me and having her to "annoy me"and to know that THIS was her job. And I DO believe God sent her.

So when I told you to find someone to give all that love you were saving to give to Baby this is what I meant. Know that there will NEVER BE ANOTHER BABY, BUT there IS another fine soul that could use that love you have... Just my thoughts. I too once thought that I would never give my heart again like that, but God and Teacah (thank you God) thought different

God Bless you too and may He find a way to help you with your pain --Janice